Premature ejaculation info

Even though the problem is very common it is hard to find good premature ejaculation info. In this text you will find out if you suffer from premature ejaculation. There are 3 different approaches how premature ejaculation is defined.

How to measure "lasting long"

First, you can measure the time you last during intercourse and compare it to the average time.

A quick search on the internet for premature ejaculation info will reveal that the average duration of intercourse is between 3 to 10 minutes. This is a worldwide average, country specific data is harder to find, especially if you are from a smaller country.

Since pictures speak louder than word I made the graphic you can find below. It shows how long men last during intercourse.

The source is a scientific study with 500 couples from the Netherlands, United Kingdom, Spain, Turkey, and the United States. The entire study can be found here (expect a DRY READ)

how long men last

As interesting as these figures might be, there are several problems with the approach of simple clocking your intercourse.

There are many problems with this first approach though.

The main reason why length of time isn't everything

First, your partner will not be too happy with you watching a timer while having sex. She would prefer you enjoying the shared experience instead of worrying how to last longer.

It is a good idea to keep in mind that woman differ from us in more than just their bodies. For them things you can not physically count are a lot more imporant than for us men. They are also not as competitive and are not always trying hard to impress the opposite sex.

This is the reason why in a healthy relationship your partner will see the sex as an expression of your feelings towards her instead of a competition with the stop watch.

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Measuring length of intercourse sucks!

As a second reason you should consider that watching a timer while having sex will neither be pleasurable nor very encouraging. This holds especially if you find yourself coming even earlier than you imagined.

Me for example I was sure I’d last about two to three minutes and was shocked and devastated when I found out that I was more in the ballpark of one minute.

It also distracts you from enjoying the pleasurable sensations. Those sensations are probably the reason you decided to have sex in the first place.

It's timing not time

Thirdly you should not forget that even though you might fall into the range of the average male “performer” you can still have the impression that the sex was way too short.

Lastly clocking does not take your partner into consideration. If the sex was short but she still loved every second of it and the duration was fine with her, is it still a problem?

An older premature ejaculation info thus states that whenever the man ejaculates before his partner reaches orgasm he ejaculates prematurely.

How often do you thrust during intercourse?

Yet another premature ejaculation info suggests that not time but the number of thrusts during the intercourse should be measured.

This leads to the question how many thrusts are considered average in a minute of intercourse. As an answer to this question statisticians came up with the number 7.

That would mean one thrust (the entire in-and-out-movement of the penis) would last for about 9 seconds. Counting your thrusts is certainly easier than taking the time.

Wait, but what if your thrusts take significantly longer or shorter than those 9 seconds? When I’m in heat I sure take less than this and when I find myself approaching ejaculation I try to go as slowly as possible.

That seriously distorts the picture when trying to figure how to last longer than the average. Yes, you could try to estimate how long each of your thrust takes but hell you want to have sex not doing a math class!

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So what is premature ejaculation in the end?

This is why you should not worry too much about the statistics other premature ejaculation info tries to provide you with. Important should only be one question:

Are you having sex for as long as you want or do you find yourself always coming way earlier than you wanted to?

If your answer to this question is “Yes”, take a careful look at the cures and aids on this website since it is intended to help you answer the question of how to last longer in bed – every time and no matter who is your partner.

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